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Previous Bla Bla Blas by Jamilee...
When I first moved to Calgary, I had a small
import business, set up by the lovely Samia of Sim Sim Imports, and thought a
way to get known was to send out a quarterly newsletter which would let the
Belly Dance community know I was here, advertise my wares and most of all, share
hard earned knowledge and give every one interested a place to advertise their
classes and events in the Prairie Oasis Newsletter. It took off! I
was VERY glad to get into the cyber age, as it was just me putting it together,
paying for stamps etc. Although the E-zine is now just called Abir's
Casbah E-Zine, and I do not have an import business anymore (To get my costume
and music addiction fix, I gleefully paw through everything
Son of the Pharaoh has as many
times as I can get to their wonderful stores here in Calgary) and I do have paid
advertising (gotta be some way to keep it going, it IS an expense to run, not
including my time) the values are the same as when I started this adventure - to
share experience and support the Belly Dance Community.
Some of this stuff is old and you may need
to think in more modern concept (cassettes- huh?) however, I think it still may
be of interest... Let me know what you think... THIS MATERIAL HAS A
COPYRIGHT©Copyright.
Please do not copy unless you have asked permission.
| May 2007 |
If the
Shammadan Fits, Wear it...By
Jamilee Abir - E-zine Apr 07
Ahh... I remember the experience of making my
1st candleabra fit perfectly (^&%$!!#*&!! Oops! Was that my inside
voice???).... My friend
Anna in Vegareville sent me a note saying she just COULD NOT get her new
candleabra to fit & balance properly. Could I help her her out next time
she comes to town.. I said I would LOVE to, but she may want to try the
following method. I figured this out by trial and error...
1) First: Measure your Head (you
may need a friend to help you)
a) My Method- Place a thin single layer material
"sweatband" on (think retro- circ 1980's cool ) , make sure it is as wide as
your metal headband on the candleabra. Hold the candleabra on your head over the
sweatband and adjust until it is balanced, then line up the sweatband underneath
it so no edges are showing. You are now ready to measure.
b) Start at the from your brow where the
sweatband is, to the back of your head, again where the sweatband is. Write it
down.
c) Take the side measurements using the sweatband
as a guide again (ear to ear). Write it down. Have some wine for your nerves.
Give your friend some wine too.
Look at the measurements, is the forehead to the
back of your head longer than the ear to ear??? AHA!! This means we do not have the perfectly
round heads like the Egyptian manufacturers THINK we do!!!
2) Candleabra Strategy:
a) To prepare the inside ridge of the "head band"
of the candleabra a strip of material, such as soft absorbent cotton
(T-shirt fabric works well) twice as wide as the headband plus an extra 2
inches.
b) Fold the strip in half length wise, and line
the fold up with the top of the band, then glue/sew whatever you need to do to
attach it on the inside of the headband Leave the "extra" to flap gently in the
wind (just kidding) Once the headband fits the
shape of our head, the excess will be used to fold over "stuffing" if required.
c) Loosen the "screws" on the branches so they
are all pointed forward & back. Lay it down, & squish the headband a bit for a
more oblong shape. Is the front of your head a little more narrower than the
back? Squish the front of the headband in a bit more...Try it on and adjust it
a few hundred times (have lots of wine on hand) You do NOT want it tight, as
there has to be room for the soft lining, and little nooks and crannies can be
filled with stuffing.
d) When you find yourself getting dizzy with
exertion (although the culprit is probably the wine) put everything away, and go
sleep it off... Alternate Ending: Adjust, stuff the headband where you need
it(I find usually the sides of the temples needs the extra wedging) and Ta
Daaaaa! A balanced, fitted candleabra is yours!!!
©Copyright -Jamilee Abir
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What the heck is the diff between a Performance Class and a Professional
Troupe ???
A few enquiring
minds from my advance class wanted to know. So I whomped up a Queen sized
e-mail with all of my opinionated opinions and sent it out.... then thought,
"Hey! This may be a good editorial!" So here it is....
Class-Advanced & Beyond...:
There are some
students who do not want to perform in anything other than MAYBE the year
end performance. They like to come to class, maybe make a costume, or maybe
not. They love the once a week class, love dancing and socializing with
everyone and do not mind the occasional recital. They may have a favorite
choreography, and the appropriate costume that they will perform with the
group occasionally. They may like progressing to higher levels, and an Open
Class is very comfortable. They may be lovely, confident and very good
technical dancers, and they may take part in workshops and other people's
classes, but they prefer to dance more for themselves and MAYBE for their
close friends and family....
Performance Class:
There are other
student groups that I would classify as a performance class. They have a
DESIRE to dance with their peer group and love to show what they have
learned by performing it! The choreographies would be learned in class
(which they have paid for because it is adding on to their own repertoire
and skill sets) and rehearsals usually would be held in accordance to the
show commitments. Rehearsal space would also have to be paid for (fund
raising may help to offset the rehearsal space costs, or even contribute to
group costumes, workshops etc).
They have
a few choreographies
under their hip belts, they may even have a group name, they buy/make
appropriate costumes and like to dance as with their group in other events
(i.e.- seniors homes, other dancers' shows, charitable events that entail a
granitite which depends on how the fees are negotiated and how much the
budget is, or even a *Private function where again a gratuity is offered.
(*There are stipulations applicable for private functions so as NOT to
undermine the professional dancers and companies)
Performance Class dancers must give
the same level of commitment
whether there is a gratuity or not. Polished, well rehearsed performance,
arrival in a timely manner, program and music organized. The person dealing
with the client (organization coordinator or private citizen) must have good
communication skills; professional sounding and acting is essential. The
dancers must arrive looking put together, performance make up/ hair on and
wearing dressy, but easy to get into/out of outfits. A nice carry-all,(
including a galabaya cover-up) not grocery bags for their gear . This
applies to student groups and professionals, so much can be said on, it is a
subject all on it's own...will cover more another time....)
The
students in the Performance Class
may be starting to develop their own solo choreographies, or team up with
another classmate. They would get full credit for their own choreographies.
If
the dancers are being paid,
the instructor MUST ensure a polished and balanced performance. Most of the
paying jobs are from the instructor being recommended, or by the group being
seen at a venue, which IMPRESSED the client! With paid shows in the Private
functions, the Instructor may have the tough task of sorting her students,
according to the amount of people she can get gratuities for. At a private
citizen function, ONE DOES NOT DANCE FOR FREE, freebies are reserved for the
student shows, donating performances for the betterment of our own Dance
Community and charitable performances.
I would
not send a student out
to do a professional's solo, or demand full professional fees for my
performance class for a lot of reasons, the following is what I feel are the
most important to me.
It is not
fair to the student
('cause believe me, the director could become a real bear if the
performances are not up to standards and could add an unbearable amount of
pressure to the group, it is the director/instructor's integrity and
professionalism at stake) The students know they are not in a professional
company, and have not the time, money or the room in their lives for any
added worries, they just want to be able to dance with their friends in
their gorgeous costumes with their fun teacher when the time is available
and right for them...
It is not
fair to the other professional dancers
who are trying to make a go of this as a career, part or full time as THEIR
integrity and professionalism is also at stake. They have spent enormous
amounts of time, energy and money to hone their craft. They are
knowledgeable and will always admit they are still learning all sorts of
methods- both from participating in workshops and classes and from their own
experiences and hard won knowledge by their own mistakes.
And it is
especially not fair to the entire Middle Eastern Dance Community
as it would be UNDERCUTTING and the general p
ublic could make unfair judgments on pricing and even on
this art we love if it is misrepresented or undercharged for. (Much to add
to this, but the focus in this dialogue is Performance Class/Professional
Dance CO. I think I feel more tinkering on my keyboard is ahead for me...)
I always
try to sell the professionals.
If they want a ready-to-go professional duet or group, I contact the known
PROFESSIONAL groups and sent it their way. They can deal with the
negotiations and arrangements, in that case, it is a recommendation only and
my company does not collect a commission. ( but it sure is a great way to
build community solidarity and good will) For duets, I will again access the
professional dancers, we have been known to collaborate for special events.
If
students are involved in a paid event, then it would be made known to
the client that they are students, a gratuity negotiated for the students,
the professional get FULL FEE and I would agree to a minimum of 1
professional along with 3 students to perform class choreographies. If
I need to fill more time between our choreographies for costume changes, I
would contact other teachers who I know have Performance Class students. (I
had a lady ask for 1 pro & 1 student. I said in that case I will send 2
professionals and advised the rates. She said she could only afford 1 fee,
can she have a student? I said, no, students are most comfortable in groups,
they are entitled to a gratuity and there must be at least 1 professional
and 3 students, if this does not meet her requirements, she could try
someplace else..... She settled for 4 students and 1 pro....(Such
salesmanship!!) Performances for Student Recitals, Charitable
Events, Senior Homes, Hospitals etc usually are more flexible, such as
sending in student soloists with the group, and arranging whoever is
available to dance to go (can be fewer than 4...)
BOTTOM
LINE: In
a Performance Class, there is so much more room for flexibility, if people
cannot make it, if not everyone can perform in the exact same level as
everyone and, if there has been 10 people committed to a performance, and
only 7 can show at the last minute, everything can be adjusted because
this a group of students in a performance class who may or may not be
receiving gratuities and whoever has contracted them KNOWS AND HAD PAID
ACCORDINGLY FOR THIS. There is still a lot of pressure and time commitment
on the Instructor (sometimes also called director) It is their artistic
vision, usually their choreography and definitely their experience the
students are learning from.
Professional Group:
I can only give you the
basic understanding of it that I have. The idea of a professional group is
they make enough money to pay the director, for the rehearsal space, for the
new choreographies and to draw a wage, whether it is part-time or full
time. A lot of companies have directors that also create the
choreographies. Some of them hire in choreographers for certain pieces, or
for all of it. Many of them are non-profit groups or societies. Fund
raising benefits, government grants, donations, and performance fees are
ways to generate revenues. Many companies (like Yasmina Ramsay's Arabesque)
in addition to their contracts and fund raising, have applied for grants.
A
professional dance troupe is
a completely different flavor than a Performance Class. First of all,
one has to audition to join. A dancer auditioning has to know and be
able to perform with ease & fluidity all the basic and layered movements,
understand the rhythms of the music from the Middle East, especially the
most popular ones with music for dancers and play the finger cymbals like a
demon. They also have to pick up choreography fast, whether it is their
God-given talent, or they just work extra hard on their own time to
accomplish it. Usually they have performed professionally in restaurants,
parties, and some of them are instructors. Many of them have also have been
in performance classes (sometimes several of them).
The
director should have a good idea
of personalities, and usually can weed out or cultivate the dancers'
personalities to what they think will work. They also have to FIT in the
group. There has to be group unity both in movement and visually. The
directors sometimes have to arrange even the body types for group dances and
solos.
There would be weekly rehearsal
commitments, and well as the company would have to pay for new choreographies,
which would also be learned on a weekly basis (sometimes 2-3 times a week)
If 7 dancers have been contracted to dance somewhere, there HAS to be 7
that are rehearsed, polished and ready to go. There is a big time
commitment.
Hopefully after reading through
my long-winded explanations, your conclusion will be there IS a BIG
difference between Performance Class and Professional Dance Companies.....©Copyright -Jamilee Abir
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WHAT IS A PROFESSIONAL
DANCER?
Original
printing '97
By Jamilee Abir of Abir's Casbah (Calgary)
3rd Printing with additions from members of the Edmonton Belly Dance Community
I wrote the original article at least 7 or 8 years ago, and it was featured in
the Abir's Oasis hardcopy news letter. I have had numerous requests to
re-print the article, and also have had people requesting to feature it on their
websites, even as a workshop topic. Aldya
from Edmonton has re-printed it on her website with some tweakings by the
Edmonton Belly Dancers. I think the guidelines described still
applies in Middle Eastern Dance Communities everywhere....
Over the last ten years the Mid East dance population has grown considerably. In
order to avoid undercutting and backbiting, defining professionalism is
necessary. There is a whole range of basic components that dancers should have
before the term “professional” can truthfully be labeled. Hopefully the
guidelines outlined below will help define PROFESSIONAL DANCER STATUS. If a
dancer doesn’t have at least 95% of the following she may still be at the
Advanced Student Level.
1. Learning to move your
body to the music, play basic rhythms on finger cymbals and wearing a pretty
costume is only the START of becoming a professional Middle Eastern Dancer.
At least 3 to 5 years of classes and workshops are necessary to achieve the
skill levels & understanding of movement to music in order to move confidently &
well. A professional can flawlessly perform both basic and complex combinations
of movements & steps as improvisation and has performed both basic & intricate
choreographies using the appropriate music & costume. A professional dancer must
also be very comfortable and adept at reading and interacting with her audience.
In most cases,this interaction is expected and is the highlight of the
performance for many clients. CAN PLAY FINGER CYMBALS LIKE A DEMON!
2. Has knowledge of different dance styles, music and costuming and is able
to use that knowledge appropriately for the various occasions & performances
that the dancer maybe required to perform. (eg. Egyptian Cabaret, Egyptian
Folkloric, American Cabaret, American Tribal Fusion, Tribal – Techno Fusion,
African-Egypt. Fusion.) Know that some of these dance styles ( Amer. Tribal or
Tribal Fusion) may not be accepted by Ethnic- Arab audiences. Wearing the right
costume, ie. More covered or full dress for an Ethnic wedding & NEVER WEAR
WHITE, you don’t compete with the bride!! Also more coverage for a school event
or shows for children. This all has to do with cultural sensitivity.
3. Is able to perform to live Arabic Music as well as recorded music with
good improvisational skills and has a repertoire of both oriental- cabaret
stylings and folkloric dances of the middle east. Folkloric Examples. Raqs
Assaya (Cane) Raqs Shamadan ( Candelabra, nice for Egyptian weddings) Saudi (
Khaligy Folkloric). Continues to attend classes & workshops to upgrade skills as
well as connect with the dance community. Seeks and accepts feedback and
criticism whenever possible. Is punctual, reliable and conducts herself
professionally for all performances.
4. Has put together a good selection of music for performances cd’s .
This is sometimes tricky. Some restaurants prefer the latest Arabic pop music or
a lot of remixes using a strong disco sound backbeat on top of traditional
Arabic pieces while others prefer more traditional & classical oriental or
lively folkloric music. It’s a good idea to have 20 to 30 min selections of a
bit of both with a good strong drum solo included in the mix. It is also
important that cd’s be of consistent recording quality. Communicating with
fellow professional dancers or your instructor about performance music is
helpful.
5. Has a business based on Middle Eastern Dance performance, can be a
part-time home based operation or works through a LEGITIMATE agency that is
licensed and has a business ph. #. When working for an agency make sure that the
agent is ADDING THEIR fee on to the AGREED upon fees by the professional dance
community, rather than deducting their fee from your earnings (including your
tips!) – BE SURE YOU ARE COLLECTING THE FULL RATE.
See the current minimum fee rates for Calgary
Anyone charging less that the current minimum fees in your own Dance Community
is NOT a professional belly dancer.
6. Charges the set fees (see above # 5) agreed upon by the dance community
and never undercuts. The importance of NOT UNDERCUTTING to get shows cannot
be over emphasized. Undercutting hurts everyone, and you must consider the cost
of all your costumes, music, gas for car, travel time, classes & workshops. (
Also may need to provide sound system on occasion.) Undercutting lowers the
standards for everyone and makes it impossible to continue performing and
costuming to the highest standards, which in turn cheapens our dance in the eyes
of the public.
7. Demonstrates highest ethics when asked to substitute for a job for another
dancer. Price undercutting and put-downs of any kind towards the other
dancer in order to steal the regular job is NEVER done by a professional. This
makes us all look bad.
8. NEVER accepts bookings for bachelor parties or private parties for men
only. This not only sends the wrong idea about Middle Eastern dance, it puts
the dancer in a potentially dangerous situation, even if she conducts herself
with the utmost decorum. When negotiating a private booking, a dancer should
always ask if the audience will be a mix of men and women.
9. Only performs family-friendly shows. If anything a dancer does
resembles exotic dancing (removing clothing, etc), she is NOT a professional
Middle Eastern Dancer.
10. Has business cards, photos & publicity material that looks
professionally done and are reasonably up to date.
11. Researches information available to Mid-East dance enthusiasts,
usually has a great stash of video’s, dvd’s, books, magazine articles &
subscribes to such.
12. Has at least 2 (to start with & more will come later) professional
quality cabaret or oriental style costumes, and several folkloric style costumes
& a caftan style cover-up. All costumes should be in good condition whether
oriental or folkloric, ( no uncovered bra straps) & must look great even for
close up viewing. For professional performances, costumes must be professionally
made – costumes that LOOK unfinished, ratty or thrown together will not do! Be
prepared to pay $600.00-$the sky's the limit per costume, in addition to
purchasing proper shoes, jewellery, make up, zils, and other accessories.
Costumes must look flattering for your body type and be properly fitted. Here
arises the question of body type. Oriental dancers do generally have more public
acceptance and leeway in terms of weight & age, however it seems that a fit and
youthful image is still the preferred type that is hired for regular restaurant
work.
TATTOOS & PIERCINGS: Because the cabaret and oriental style represents a more
classical and traditional style of dance, large body tattoos & multiple obvious
piercing are not the most favored look when performing for an Arabic community.
They truly do suit the American Tribal or Fusion Tribal although you do not have
to have them to perform in this style (henna and temporary tattoos are a great
alternative
13. Volunteer performances such as charities or cultural celebrations may be
requested. If the dancer chooses to participate, the benefactors are treated the
same as if it was a paid engagement as far as the commitment goes. When
approached to do charitable work, it is good practice to let the client know the
current rate for professional performances and ask for a honorarium or tax
receipt in lieu of the regular fee. This let the client know the value of our
services and helps them gain a greater appreciation of what we are doing for
them. It is also a good opportunity to network & present your promotional
material & will sometimes evolve into a paid engagement later.
14. Above all, dancing professionally must be treated like any other
profession - a professional dancer treats her peers and clients with dignity
and respect, conducts herself with professionalism and integrity, and continues
to upgrade her skills and knowledge so she can always present herself and her
art in the best light.
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Organizing a Hafli...
By Jamilee Abir- Printed Vol 1 Issue 2 '97
This is a wonderful opportunity for dancers, student to
professional level, to perform and fraternize!! If you are in an area that
does not have places that regularly feature dancers, this can build public
awareness, and future business! This also is an alternative for class end
celebrations such as a Student Night. ! The intent of the Hafli is a venue
for students to perform for their family and friends in a warm, encouraging
atmosphere and for professionals to strut their stuff and build towards a
strong community spirit!!
(**NOTE**I recommend that only 2 to 3 are held a year, so if
there are large Shows planned in your area, they will not interfere with
ticket sales. I change the location for each Hafli. It gives more exposure
for the dancers, and in the competitive restaurant market, lets the owners
know we are trying to be fair to everyone. Also, this platform is useful in
developing regular PAID performances, you don’t want the restaurants getting
used to FREE entertainment all the time!! To organize a Hafli, one option is
to get together with fellow instructors & dancers and form a Hafli
Committee. Or, if you are a real dance community go-getter, head it
yourself, but make sure you have lots of help!!! The following guidelines
have been developed by putting on the past six Haflies here in Calgary. We
learn more each time!!!...
Event Staging:
1) Choose your date on a Tuesday, Wednesday or Sunday . 7:00
PM is a good start time.
2)Form a Scouting Team to find the perfect place. Choose a
Restaurant or Lounge that has a minimum capacity of 50 patrons with seating
arranged for optimum viewing. Having a bit of floor space to utilize as a
stage is a bonus.
-Check out the sound system (literally, it HAS to be GOOD.)
Is it Cassette, CDs, MP3? Check the lighting. Can it be dimmed for the
Show? Is there ceiling room for prop dances? What about changing space???
3) One Spokesperson should will be the liaison for the
restaurant manager or owner and the committee. Advise the manager that they
will not make much on liquor, just the meal service.
-This event is NOT to be advertised by the restaurant . It is
for the dancers, their families and friends, and the restaurant will be
filled! A flyer for their window should be all the advertising they need.
-Set a minimum charge of $10.00 to $12.00 per person, to
ensure the guests order a full meal.
-Seating will be done by reservation. Make each party
responsible for calling the restaurant and arranging their own
seating. (DON’T do a block reservation, it can cause major
pandemonium!!!). Also each party MUST let the restaurant know if they have
to cancel, or if more or less people are arriving than originally reserved
for.
4) Invitations for this event can be mailed, e-mailed or personally
delivered to all the instructors so they can copy it for their students. I
have a two sided flyer that has an invitation on the front the dancers can
copy or fax to their families and friends and information on the back for
participants. I mail it out with the newsletter for the Calgary area now.
Once it’s mailed, I wait 2 weeks to let the dancers have a chance to reserve
for their family & friends, then give the restaurant a flyer. The
restaurant reservations fill up fast. To offset costs of paper, Xeroxing
and postage if applicable, you may want to ask for a $2.00 cover charge at
the door from all the guests (Not the dancers though, they are performing
for free!!) Let the restaurant know you will be doing this, and assign a
couple people to collect at the door. If you are not from the Calgary Area
and are interested in an example of the flyer, see the * below for
instructions on how to get a copy..
5) Have an Organizer for the dancers. She/He will be the
contact for the show line up and the liaison for the committee . An
answering machine is a must!!.
-There should be a limit of 10 to 12 performances. The
Organizer must know the layout of the restaurant to know the feasibility for
prop and troupe production numbers..
-Performances opportunities work best on a first come
(call?) first serve basis, and there should be a cut off time for booking .
(we cut it off about 4 days before the Hafli)
-Set time limits & STICK to them!!! Beginner to intermediate
dancers should be 3-4 minutes, advanced & professionals - 8 minutes tops.
Troupes have the same guidelines .
- The Organizer should get the performer’s name (names if
it’s a troupe) how they would like to be introduced, and have that
information ready for the MC. Finding out experience level is helpful in
arranging the performances.
-The performers must have beautifully recorded music on fresh
cassettes queued at the BEGINNING of Side A, and a backup tape as well.
-Specify that proper costuming is to be worn. Presentation is
VERY close to the audience and you do not want potentially embarrassing
situations happening!!! (Or bad raps...)
-The organizer will call back all the lined up performers the
day before the Hafli, to verify they will still be dancing and to let them
know when they are slotted in.
-We have divided the Hafli into 2 Parts with a 10-15 minute
intermission, , and send the dancers out one after the other. The
show is fast and exciting that way.
-Find out how long it takes for each dancer to be costumed &
ready, as it is easier on the changing space. As each dancer is finished,
she changes then sits with her guests to eat & enjoy the show!
-The Organizer will work with the MC, and Stage Managers to
coordinate the show.
6) Have at least 2 Stage Managers , to ensure the dancers ,
MC and music are cued. The restaurant may have someone to operate the
music, but the cassettes should be put in order and clearly marked by name,
number or both, and if possible, sound checked for the recording levels
well before the show. They can return the tape after each performance to the
dancer .
7) Ask someone who you know has a great speaking voice for
MC. The important thing is to be HEARD.... The MC should make sure they
have the list from the Organizer with the announcement info and correct line
up as soon as it is available, also check with the performers on the
pronunciation of their names, music etc. before the show starts . Let the
audience know that the entertainers are dancing for free, and TIPS are very
much appreciated. Demonstrate the proper way to tip. Show them how to
appreciate the performance Middle East Style by zagareeting at the fast
music, hissing at the slow music and universal clapping and whooping to
energize the dancers!! Don’t forget the Kudos for all the people who helped
make it happen and to the restaurant and staff.
We also have taped Arabic music for the background, that is
played softly before the Show, then cranked up during intermission, and
after the Show finale, in case the audience feels the urge to dance! Have lots of fun ! It’s well worth the effort!!©Copyright -Jamilee Abir
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To Vend or not to Vend….By
Jamilee Abir- Printed Vol 1 Issue 5 '99
(Ed note Feb '08-
As mentioned, I no longer vend,just did not have the time anymore, but maybe
it will give you an idea of the pros & cons of the small business
vendor....)
I
just spent 4 hours re-arranging all my stock …. This was step #1-
of my Operation-0rganize project (being done on my much needed vacation time
off from my daytime career) Step #2 is looming ahead - organizing all the
paper work…..EEEEEEK! Just before going on holidays, I was wondering
if I really had time to look after Abir’s Casbah properly. I thought
about all the grandiose dreams, and how I had difficulties with
accomplishing some of the goals I had set for myself with Middle Eastern
Dance, as well as at times not being able to keep up with my client
requests…..So, I did a Positive & Negative List…
NEGATIVE:
1) $$$ for Stock
Ooooh, those visa bills…. Well, you gotta have stock! But I am running
out of ingenious hiding places for the bills (that my husband can find…)
2) Money Misunderstandings. I lost a couple hundred
(yep! Count’em) because of trying to convert US to Canadian & vice versa…
Learned the hard way h ow to do it. I sometimes bring
other vendor’s stock on the road with me. As an example of a costly
misunderstanding, a beaded bra & belt set ended up with an incorrect price,
($200.00 rather than $450.00), and I sold it on behalf of another vendor
(not realizing the incorrect price). The vendor called the lady who
bought the set, told her the problem, and offered her a choice of paying the
balance, or sending it back collect and receiving a refund on the amount she
paid. The lady was very pleasant, but said she had already done some
alterations on it, and said she would think about it. She called a
couple days later and advised the vendor that she spoke with a friend about
the misunderstanding, and they felt when a STORE was at fault, the customer
is always right, and shouldn’t have to pay the difference, but to be fair,
she would pay half of the balance. The vendor (who consigns her stock
from a supplier in the US), actually had to pay her supplier out of her own
pocket for most of the difference) agreed to this arrangement. (I THINK the
cheque for the balance was received) The whole thing is as a vendor in
these exotic wares, there just is NOT that kind of mark-up to play with
(unlike businesses with store fronts). Most of the vendors I know (me
included) are CRAZY about the dance, want to supply other dancers and
hope like hell there is enough profit made to buy more stock and more glitzy
stuff for themselves!
POSITIVE
1)The lovely people that I get to deal with…From the dancers
themselves, to their families and friends,
2) Working together with the other vendors. I have cemented
many a wonderful friendship with vendors such as Calgary’s Son of The
Pharaoh, & Arabia Adorned, Vancouver’s Senitza’s Designs, Costumes by
Jordana, Shalazar Creations & Rahma, Montreal & Toronto’s Sim Sim Imports,
Albuquerque New Mexico’s Isis Imports from the US, and many, many more!
3) Choosing and receiving the beautiful merchandise (it’s
like Christmas time when a shipment is in)
4) Expanding into Vancouver, British Columbia and sharing the
company with my beautiful cousin Perri Richardson (Amar). Buying trips
with her are WAY too much fun!!!!
5) Did I mention having first crack at the merchandise?
6) Bazaars, I LOVE going to them, setting up, and the
interaction with everyone attending. (Builds great pecs too!)
7) Watching a dancer who is obviously delighted with her(his)
purchase.
I could go on & on about the positives, and they certainly
out-number the 2 little negatives… so I am going to stay in it for the long
haul! Happy Dancing!!!!
©Copyright -Jamilee Abir
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